Bully Police USA: Reporting
on State Anti Bullying Laws
& Advocating for Bullied
Children
RECOMMENDED
SPEAKERS
>>
Note:
This list contains basic contact information. To learn more about
these speakers, order ANY of the Bully Police E-Books and a free
biographies listing can be found in the bonus area. The listings
of Recommended Speakers in this e-book does not constitute an endorsement,
however, I know most of these individuals personally as many are volunteers
for Bully Police USA. I do, however, endorse having speakers
tell their stories to help students, parents, teachers and administrators
understand the importance of creating a civil and safe environment inside
our schools. ~Brenda
Parry
Aftab - NY; Don Bartlette-OH; Tony Bartoli - TN; Allan Beane - KY;
Elizabeth
Bennett - SC; Justin
Bergener - UT; Mike Bogdanski – CT;
Thomas
Brown – OH; Joe Bruzzese - CA; Phil
Burger - MN; Michelle Calco - MI;
Fernando
Camareno - PR; Jay Carter - PA;John
Dayton – GA; Rhonda Denny – DE;
Kevin
& Epling Epling - MI; Lisa Freeman - MI; SuEllen
Fried - KA;
Libby Graffam - ME; Joel Haber - NY; John
Halligan - VT;Patrick
Harnish - IA;
Brenda High - WA; Debbie Johnston - FL; Jim
Jordan - CANADA;
Lisa Pescara-Kovach - OH; Judy Kuczynski - MN; Deb
Landry - ME;
Jim Lowrance - AR; Rick Lynn - GA; Suzanne MacKay - VT;
Heidi Markow - PA;
Rande W. Matteson - FL; Sam McBride - RI; Cathy
Swartwood Mitchell - OK;
Sean
Mulroney - MO; Rick Naylor - NM; Kathy
Noll - PA; Jillian Palmieri – NJ;
Barbara
Paris - TX; Rick Phillips - CANADA; Russell
Sabella - FL;
Frank C. Sacco - MA; Adrianna Sgarlata - VA; Rochelle Sides
- TX;
Douglas
Stratemeyer - WA; Glenn R. Stutzky - MI; Warren Throckmorton - PA;
Cary
Tivanovich - CA; Robin Todd - AZ; Andy Tomko - MI; Stuart W. Twemlow -
TX;
Bonnie Eaker Weil - NY; Cyndie
Westrich – GA; Gary Whitehurst - FL;
Holly L. Wilson - UT;
(If you are a
speaker who speaks on bullying issues, contact me by email at Brenda
(at) jaredstory (dot) com to be listed
The
"BP" logo by the name signifies
A
Bully Police Volunteer/Advisor
Parry
Aftab, Esq.
New
York, USA & International
Parry
Aftab is one of the leading experts, worldwide, on cybercrime, Internet
privacy and cyber-abuse issues and is
a sought-after speaker, author and resource for media, governmental agencies
and business.
She can be reached via e-mail at parry
(at) aftab (dot) com. (website,http://www.aftab.com).
Listen to her message about cyberbullying at
www.wiredsafety.com/wmom.html.
Don
Bartlette, PhD.
Ohio,
USA & International
Don
has been speaking worldwide for 35 years on the topic, "Macaroni at Midnight",
an autobiographical story of his childhood. A former victim of school
bullying himself, he is a passionate, full-time (Native American), speaker...with
a speech impediment! Contact Don at 330-705-1543 or email him at
donbartlette@juno.com.
Tony
Bartoli
Tennessee
& USA
Dave
Ramsey says, "Tony has a personal testimony that will motivate,
inspire, and challenge your group of youth or adults to overcome obstacles
and live a full and meaningful life." Contact Tony at 615-278-6484
or visit his website at http://www.tonyb4hope.com/
Allan
L. Beane, Ph.D.
Kentucky,
USA & International
Dr.
Beane is a former classroom teacher, is an internationally recognized expert,
speaker, and author on bullying, as well as a nationally renowned consultant
and educator. Allan can be contacted by email at
abeane@bullyfree.com
or by phone at 270-227-0431 or 270-293-7376.
Elizabeth
Bennett, M. Ed.
South
Carolina, USA & Canada
Elizabeth
Bennett, M.Ed., is the author of Peer Abuse Know More! Bullying From
A Psychological Perspective. Through speaking engagements, talk
radio, newspaper, internet and television, she has been able to educate
others on Peer Abuse. To
learn more, visit
http://www.peerabuse.info
or email elizabethbennett@peerabuse.info
Justin
Bergener
Utah
& USA
BYU
student Justin Bergener worked with MSE faculty member Betty Ashbaker to
create the award-winning SchoolTipline, (www.SchoolTipline.com),
a hotline for young students to combat bullying, harassment, violence,
and drugs in schools. Justin can be contacted by email at
justinbergener@gmail.com.
Mike
Bogdanski, M.S.
Connecticut
& USA
Mike,
a Martial Arts Master, holds the prestigious rank of Black belt. A thirty
year veteran in martial arts, he teaches people all over the country the
strength of mind and the mental skills of martial arts. Email Mike at
mike@mikebogdanski.com,
call Toll free at 1.877.208.6176, or visit his blog, http://mikebogdanski.blogspot.com.
Thomas
Brown
Ohio,
USA & Canada
Thomas
has created several dramatic educational films and has traveled throughout
the United States and Canada presenting a straightforward and hard-hitting
awareness programs about the severity of school bullying. Contact
Thomas through e-mail at:
film1x1@roadrunner.com
or by phone, 419-960-9071.
Joe
Bruzzese, M.A.
California
& USA
Joe
Bruzzese, MA, is a leading parent expert for the middle school years, author
of
A Parent’s Guide to the Middle School Years and co-founder of www.Thinking-Forward.com
(or
http://tv.thinking-forward.com).
To schedule a presentation or half-day seminar, email
Joe@thinking-forward.com
or call 805-889-2142.
Phil
Burger, M.A.
Minnesota
& USA
Phyl
Burger is a faculty member in the College of Education at Concordia University
St. Paul, MN. She develops bully awareness and prevention programs
for schools and is a skilled public speaker. She can be contacted
by email at
peburger@gmail.com.
Michelle
Calco
Michigan
& Surrounding Areas
Since
that tragic day when Michelle experienced the loss of her eldest daughter,
Kristina, on Dec. 4th, 2005, to “bullycide”, she has become actively involved
educating the public on the link between depression, bullying and suicide.
Contact Michelle by email at mpcalico@yahoo.com.
Fernando
Camareno
Puerto
Rico & USA
(Bilingual
– Spanish & English)
Fernando
is a Professional Speaker, Trainer, Life Skill Coach, Personal Conduct
& Safety Specialist, Martial Arts Master, and a Camp or Sports Management
Consultant.
With 25 years of teaching experience, he mesmerizes his audience with his MARTIAL
ARTS skills. Contact Master
Fernando Camareno at 787-603-5333 or email, camarenos@gmail.com.
Jay
Carter, Ph.D.
Pennsylvania,
USA & International
Dr.
Carter is a Licensed Psychologist, a professional speaker, and is the best
selling author of "Nasty People," "Nasty Men," "Nasty Women," and
"Nasty Bosses." For speaking information, email Kathy Noll (book
co-author) at
kthynoll@aol.com
for details.
John
Dayton, Ph.D.
Georgia
& Surrounding Areas
John
Dayton is a Professor of Education Law at the University of Georgia, College
of Education, in Educational Administration & Policy, and Co-Director
of the Education Law Consortium. He is nationally recognized
as an expert on Education Law and Finance. Contact Dr. Dayton’s by
email at
jdayton@uga.edu.
Rhonda
Denny, Esq.
Delaware,
USA & International
Rhonda
is an experienced trial lawyer, who has witnessed first-hand the crimes
committed in schools. She began to present interactive bullying prevention
assemblies entitled “Prevent Bullying: Prevent Crime” to students of all
ages. To schedule a presentation or purchase her book, visit Rhonda’s
website at
www.StrandsofTruth.com.
Tammy
& Kevin Epling
Michigan
& Surrounding Areas
The
loss of their son Matthew in the summer of 2002, forty days after a hazing
incident has charged Kevin and Tammy with making sure other children are
safe from bullying, hazing and harassment in Michigan’s schools. Kevin
is the Co-Director of Bully Police USA and Tammy is a co-writer
with "Bullycide in America: Moms speak out about the bullying/suicide connection." They
both also serve as BP-Michigan Co-Directors. They can be contacted
by email at
tepling@gmail.com
(Tammy) and
kepling@gmail.com
(Kevin).
Lisa Freeman
Michigan & Surrounding Areas
Lisa,
her dogs, and family hope to tackle the war on bullying in Michigan, through
their innovative program Take A Bite Out Of Abuse.
For
more information about bullying, abuse, or Take A Bite Out Of Abuse and the
workshops offered, contact Lisa at
www.abusebites.com or
www.runtolife.org, via email at
abusebites@gmail.com, or via phone at 989-729-2124.
SuEllen
Fried
Kansas,
USA & International
Since
1976 SuEllen has served as a volunteer in the prevention of child abuse.
Her concern for the cruelty of children led her to co-author two books
about bullying with her daughter, Paula Fried, Ph.D. SuEllen offers
Keynote addresses and three-day Train
the Trainer Institutes. Email SuEllen at suellenfried@hotmail.com
or call (913) 362-2226.
Parent
Advocate
Libby
Graffam
North
Bridgton, Maine
graffams@localnet.com
Libby
is a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for Children in the State
of Maine. She works with the Administrative Office of the Courts
in the Family Division. Contact Libby at
graffams@localnet.com
if you are a parent in Maine and are in need of help. Please put
“CASA” in the subject line.
Joel
Haber, Ph.D.
New
York, USA & International
Joel
Haber, PhD
is a clinical psychologist who has devoted more than 20 years to the identification,
prevention and reduction of abusive (emotional and physical) behaviors.
He is the Founder of the Respect U program,
www.RespectU.com.
Contact Joel by phone at (914) 428-0004, ext. 23 and by email at
Joel@RespectU.com.
John
Halligan
Vermont
& Surrounding Areas
Presentation:
“Ryan’s Story”
John
Halligan lost his 13 year old son, Ryan, to suicide on October 7, 2003.
In memory of Ryan, he spearheaded the passage of the VT Bully Prevention
Bill H.629 in 2004. Now, John is outspoken about the need for more
education and prevention of bullying, cyber bullying and teen suicide.
Website: www.ryanpatrickhalligan.org
Patrick
Harnish
Iowa
& Surrounding Areas
Patrick
founded CAABI (Children and Adults Against Bullying/for Intervention),
as a result of hearing stories of children being bullied - he is also a
survivor. Patrick consults with schools and parents who need a “diplomatic”
approach to solve bullying problems. Visit
http://www.caabi.org
or email pkefdr@caabi.org
Brenda
High
Washington,
USA & International
Conferences/Workshops/Students
Founder,
Co-Director, Bully Police USA
Brenda
High is a passionate crusader and a mom on a mission to stop school bullying.
She is the Founder and Co-Director of Bully Police USA and the mother of
Jared High who died by “bullycide” in 1998. Website:
www.BrendaHigh.com;
Home phone: 509-547-1052; Cell: 509-302-8888 (PST) or email:
brenda@jaredstory.com.
Debbie
Johnston
Florida,
Southern States, East Coast
Debbie
Johnston is a Certified in Early Childhood Education, Elementary Education,
and Science teacher. She worked with Gov. Jeb Bush and Rep. Bogdanoff
to pass the Jeffrey Johnston "Stand Up For All Students" Act in 2008.
Contact - Home: 239-282-9365 - Cell 239-247-2873 - email dweezle5757@msn.com
Jim
Jordan
Canada
& International
Jim
offers student presentations on topics like bullying in schools, student
success, fire safety, and career development for elementary, high school,
and collage students as well as innovative keynotes for adults, teens and
elementary students. Call Jim now at 1-866-333-4553 or visit his website
at http://www.jimjordan.ca/
Lisa
Pescara-Kovach, Ph.D.
Ohio
& USA
Dr.
Lisa Pescara-Kovach is the Bully Police-Ohio Director and has recently
written a book, School Shootings and Suicides: Why We Must Stop the
Bullies. To contact Dr Lisa Pescara-Kovach,at
the University of Toledo, email
her at
LKovach@UTNet.UToledo.Edu.
Judy
Kuczynski M. Ed
Minnesota
& USA
President,
Bully Police USA, Inc.
Judy’s
youngest child, Tina, was a victim of bullying in middle and high school.
She died in a car accident after attending a new school. Currently
Judy is the Director of Counseling Services for Christina International
High School, which offers a Middle & High School curriculum.
Contact - Home: 877-211-4870 - Cell 612-325-4859 - Email:
Judy@ChristinaInternationalHS.com
- Website: www.ChristinaInternationalHS.com;
Deb
Landry
Maine,
USA & International
Deb
is the President/CEO and former Executive Director of Crossroads Youth
Center. She is also a writer and author and has authored several
interactive children’s mentoring plays on character education, social awareness,
and bullying prevention.Website:
www.deblandry.com
- Email
deb@brysontaylor.com.
Jim
Lowrance
Montrose
Arkansas & Surrounding Areas
Jim’s
goals are to educate people to the dangers of bullying AND cyberbullying.
He took up this cause because he was a victim of bullying which was the
trigger to his lifelong struggle with Bipolar Depression. Website: http://dcdawnp.webs.com
- Phone: 870-737-2003 - Email:
cobra271658@yahoo.com.
Rick
Lynn
Georgia
& Surrounding Areas
Rick
developed his learning theory, http://learningtheory.homestead.com/Theory.html,to
help students and adults who were living in more unstable environments.
Rick is currently working on a detailed analysis and explanation of the
growing international Male Crisis. Contact
Rick
by email:
mayfieldga@bellsouth.net.
Suzanne
MacKay, BSN, MS-Psyc (ABT)
Vermont,
New Hampshire & Surrounding Areas
Suzanne
is both the New Hampshire and Vermont Co-Director. She enjoys working
with children who are bullied and have low self-esteem, depression, and
need to feel that they are not alone. She is a speaker and life coach
for children, teens and families. Contact by phone: 802-222-5223
or email:
suzannemackay@earthlink.net.
Heidi
Markow
Pennsylvania
& USA
Beginning
Over Foundation, www.beginningover.org,
was founded in memory of Heidi's sister, Robin D. Shaffer, who was
murdered by her abusive husband, June 15, 2005. Heidi Markow, speaks
to groups about domestic, bullying (peer), or workplace abuse. Phone:
610-392-3837 - Email: heidi@beginningover.org
Rande
W. Matteson, Ph.D.
Florida,
USA & International
Dr.
Matteson presents at conferences and has recently published a book titled Bully
Beware! How to Fight Back with Florida Law on Your Side,
that focuses upon using criminal and civil laws as tools to prevent and
deal with bullies. Additional
information is available at
www.bullybeware.us
Sam
McBride
Rhode
Island & East Coast Areas
Sam’s
goal is to educate young children, starting in Kindergarten, about of bullying.
She believes in positive reinforcement through rewards for good behavior
as well as inspiring children to “Stand Up” and “Stand Out from the Crowd”
together.Contact
Sam at 401-845-0651 or email her at
gklasam@yahoo.com.
Cathy
Swartwood Mitchell
Oklahoma
& Surrounding Areas
When
Cathy spoke out on the Dr. Phil show about Brandon’s bullying, and "Bullycide",
the emails and phone calls to the show caused a wave of support for anti
bullying programs and policies around the nation. Her son's story
can be found in the new book, “Bullycide in America” (www.bullycide.org).
Contact Cathy at 918-689-9055
or email her at
cl_swartwood@hotmail.com.
Sean
Mulroney
Missouri
& USA
When
Sean was 21 years old, a friend of the family frankly told him that the
life he was living was going to destroy him. This was exactly what
Sean needed. He has since dedicated his life to helping teens succeed
by speaking to schools and youth groups.Phone:
636-296-3807 - Website: www.TeensofAmerica.net
- Email:
sjmulroney@aol.com
Rick
Naylor
New
Mexico & Surrounding Areas
Rick
is the Founder of “Cool Kids Don't Bully – Refuse to Abuse!” and
is helping
schools and organizations make the pledge, “I Pledge to Never Commit, Condone
or Remain Silent About Bullying Against Another Classmate.” If you
believe your school or organization is ready to take the pledge, contact
Rick at
aidv@yahoo.com.
Kathy
Noll
PA,
USA & International
Kathy
has spoken on radio and television shows discussing school violence and
self-esteem, including an appearance with Dr. Jay Carter (“Nasty People”)
on the Montel Williams Show where they talked about bullying, and promoted
their book, "Taking the Bully by the Horns." Website: http://KathyNoll.com
- Email:
kthynoll@aol.com
Julian
Palmieri
New
Jersey & USA
Bystander:
A Portrait in Apathy,
is a unique bully prevention assembly program founded and developed by
former middle school teacher Jillian Palmieri. The program brings
to light the influence the bystanders have in preventing bullying. For
more information, visit
www.bystander.us.
Barbara
Paris
Texas,
USA & International
Barbara
J PARIS, President, Texas Association of Secondary School Principals, and
Principal at the Canyon Vista Middle School in Austin Texas, does keynotes
specializing in the subject of Cyberbullying.
Call her at 254-291-3198
or email her at
cyberbullylaw@aol.com.
Rick
Phillips
Canada
& USA
Rick
Phillips is the Executive Director and founder of Community Matters,
a nonprofit organization that provides training, facilitation, and consultation
in the areas of violence prevention, youth development, strengthening and
sustaining school and community partnerships. Website:
www.community-matters.org
- Phone: 707-823-6159
Russell
A. Sabella, Ph.D.
Florida
& USA
Dr.
Sabella, “GuardingKids.com” (www.GuardingKids.com),
is a Professor of counseling in the
College
of Education,
Florida
Gulf Coast University and is the past President (2003-2004) of the
American
School Counselor Association. He can be contacted by email at
rsabella@fgcu.edu
or by phone at 239-590-7782.
Frank
C. Sacco, Ph.D
Massachusetts,
USA & International
Dr.
Sacco has a Ph. D. in Psychology from the Humanistic Psychology Institute,
(U of MA). Besides,
“Back Off Bully,” he has written with Dr. Twemlow, “Why School
Anti bullying Programs Don’t Work”.Dr.
Sacco can be contacted through Twemlow & Sacco Consulting, http://www.backoffbully.com,
413-739-5572, or by email at
fcsacco@aol.com.
Adrianna
Sgarlata
Virginia,
USA & International
Formerly,
Miss VA 2006, and a Voice for America’s Youth, Adrianna has met lawmakers,
spoken on Capitol Hill and made over 200 appearances in an effort to transform
a culture of violence into climates of respect to ensure that every child
has the opportunity to grow up without fear from bullies.
Website:
www.AdriannaSgarlata.com
- Email:
asgarlata@hotmail.com.
Douglas
Stratemeyer
Washington
& USA
Douglas
Stratemeyer is a speaker who inspires teens, young adults, and parents
across America. A criminal defense lawyer for over 16 years
and former Judge, Doug is also the Author of “The Ultimate Success
Guide for Young Adults" and is the creator of “YouthShine
Live”. Visit Doug's website at
www.DougStratemeyer.com
to learn more.
Glenn
R. Stutzky, M.S.W.
Michigan
& USA
Glenn
R. Stutzky, M.S.W. is one of the nation's leading experts on bullying and
the role it plays in the development of violence in schools. He has been
featured on ABC's 20/20 and Good Morning America programs. Phone: 517-980-0311
- Website:
www.GlennStutzky.com
Warren
Throckmorton, Ph.D.
Pennsylvania
& USA
Warren
Throckmorton, PhD is an Associate Professor of Psychology and Fellow for
Psychology and Public Policy at Grove City (PA) College. Dr. Throckmorton
has appeared on the O'Reilly Factor, FOX News Live, CNN and numerous other
TV and radio talk shows. Dr. Throckmorton can be contacted at ewthrockmorton@gcc.edu.
Cary
Tivanovich
California,
USA & International
Cary
Trivanovich's most requested topic for school assemblies nationwide is
his Choose
Character Over Bullying assembly program. Cary has
been speaking to students about bullying for over two decades.
For more information
visit www.CoolAssemblies.com
Robin
Todd
Arizona
& USA
Robin
is the mother of a child who was bullied. Her mission;
to raise awareness on the serious issue of bullying that goes on in our
nation’s schools. Robin is certified in Bullies and Victims Prevention
Training, and is available to speak at schools, church groups, and community
events. Email: robinarizona430@msn.com.
Andy
Tomko
Michigan
&USA
Andy,
“You Big Bully!”, is a "Recovering Bully" and a professional,
and entertaining speaker. Website: www.youbigbully.com
- Phone: 866-828-3577 - Email:
andy@youbigbully.com.
Stuart
W. Twemlow, MD.
Texas,
USA & International
Dr.
Twemlow has wide experience in psychoanalysis, psychiatry, and social systems
interventions. He has published numerous scientific articles,
books, and book chapters, including many on social and psychological aspects
of individual and community violence. Website: http://www.backoffbully.com
- Phone: 413-739-5572 - Email:
Stuart.Twemlow@gmail.com.
Bonnie Eaker Weil, Ph.D.
New York,
USA & International
http://www.cbsnews.com:80/video/watch/?id=4938850n
Dr.
Bonnie Eaker Weil, holds a PhD in family play therapy. She has
appeared on Oprah five times, and several other Network Magazines and News
shows. Dr. Weil is currently reaching out to schools on the subject
of “Teen Relationship Development” and how to make friends and prevent
bullying by positive social interactions.
Visit
www.DoctorBonnie.com for more information.
Cyndie
Westrich
Georgia
& Surrounding Areas
Cyndie
Westrich, M.A., LPC, A.T.R.-BC,
founded the E.A.S.E.L., Inc. (Expressive Arts Studio for Empowerment in
Living), in 1999 in Marietta GA, as a community, outreach arts studio dedicated
to preventative healing and transformation through
the arts - using Art Therapy to heal from the effects of bullying. Email:
theeasel@bellsouth.net
- Website: www.easel-arttherapy.com.
Gary
Whitehurst
Florida
& USA
Gary’s
organization is LIFE ENCOUNTERS. Areas of speaking expertise…Junior,
Senior High and Elementary Schools - Leadership Keynotes - Parent Programs
- Teacher
Inservice - Administrator
Programs & Keynotes. Website: www.LifeEncounters.com
- Phone: 813-505-7623 - Email:
gwlifeencounters@live.com
Holly
L. Wilson
Utah
& Surrounding Areas
As
a public school employee Holly witnessed acts of violence toward both students
and teachers. She believes that a “Safe School Policy” that is not
enforced is only words on paper and so she encourages parents and students
to work together to find solutions. E-mail Holly at
Utahwhistleblower@q.com.
If you are
a speaker for anti bullying causes and you wish to be listed, please email
Brenda at brenda (at)
jaredstory (dot) com with details. You
will be expected to make a donation to Bully Police USA.
~Brenda High,
Executive Director and Founder of
Bully Police USA,
Inc.
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and click on “Join Group.” You can also subscribe by emailing
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There is a need
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